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Summer holidays: Ready, set, go?

Parents can often feel the pressure during the school summer holidays for lots of reasons.

Our Communications and Marketing Manager, Angela, shares how she's balancing work commitments with childcare and family time, whilst looking after her wellbeing.

A family of four people, two adults and two children. They are stood at the beach, facing the setting sun, all holding hands together.




As the Olympics come to a close after an amazing 16 days of competition, it has been fantastic to see the athletes overcome personal and team challenges to achieve the most extraordinary feats and for team GB to bring home their large haul of medals. However, while the Olympics provided a brief period of respite and distraction in our household, the long stretch of the summer holidays and the childcare challenge continues…

As a parent to two children of different ages – a reluctant teen and an energetic 8-year-old – the summer holidays, with its vast timespan stretching ahead, can feel like a long-distance endurance race at times, but without the medal ceremony at the end, and instead of 4 years between events, we have to do it all again next year!

The summer holidays are (quite rightly) a time of excitement and adventure for children and an opportunity for families to enjoy quality time together without the rigid school routine, but for most working parents (me included), the long 6-8 weeks of the summer holidays brings a unique set of day-to-day and mental health challenges.

Balancing work commitments, staying on top of household chores, keeping the kids entertained and managing screen time, as well as our own self care and social plans – the FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) is real! - all while maintaining a budget, are just a few of the hurdles parents face (sorry, another Olympics sporting analogy!). In this blog, I share my own experience and hope to provide some practical tips and resources to help parents navigate these summer challenges while maintaining positive mental wellbeing for the whole family, long after the Olympic afterglow has faded.

Juggling childcare and work

Balancing professional responsibilities with childcare is one of the most difficult challenges during the summer holidays. Having spoken to many friends and colleagues on the topic of the ‘work/life juggle’ over the years, many parents find themselves struggling to manage their workload while ensuring their children are safe, happy and engaged. 

I’ve personally experienced a variety of working arrangements over the years including office-based, term-time contracts and hybrid working patterns and it doesn’t take a mathematician to work out that the average parent’s annual leave will not cover the whole summer holiday period, let alone the year. It sometimes feels like you might require a degree in rocket science to balance the limited leave with looming work projects that need to be delivered!

Working on a laptop typing

Top tips

  • Create a flexible schedule: Chat with your manager and team to agree a realistic plan to manage your work hours and meetings around your children’s activities. Early mornings or late evenings can be productive times to get ahead with emails or catch up on projects.

  • Utilise remote work options: If possible, take advantage of any hybrid or remote options and flexible working policies to stay at home when needed to work around your children.

  • Share the load: They say it takes a village to raise a child! With that in mind, coordinate with your partner and/or other family members to share the childcare duties if you can. If you work part time, and have friends in a similar position, you could also get creative and take turns to entertain children on different days or sign up to activities with friends, and tag team on camp drop off/pick-ups. With many holiday camps only running during the core school-day hours, it’s not ideal for that 4pm meeting!


Keeping the kids entertained on a budget

“I’m bored!” is a common overused phrase during the summer holidays from our children. 

Keeping kids entertained requires creativity and planning to a military level! If you’re at home during the week or at weekend, rotating between indoor and outdoor activities (we’ve converted our garden to a sports arena and camping site for the summer holidays!), helps keep things interesting and reduces too much screen time. I’ve also found that it’s good to allow time for boredom and opportunities for the kids to get creative and take ownership of their own time to help with their independence too.

Children doing arts and crafts activities

Top tips

Plan a range of activities and get them involved in a local cause.

  • Fun family activities at home: As well as planning a range of different low-cost and easy activities such as crafts and garden-based fun, you can use the time to get older children involved in meal preparation and practical chores to help take some of the pressure off. You can keep them busy while giving them a chance to earn some pocket money in the process – it’s a win-win!

  • Volunteering: If you’d like your children to get involved in volunteering opportunities, there are lots of community-based initiatives, such as local beach cleans, on offer. These are a great way to get the children active for a good cause and they can see the immediate results of their efforts. You could even get their input into deciding what they’d like to do to make a difference in their community.

  • Camps and other activities: When planning ahead and booking camps, I try to mix it up with sports, drama and outdoor adventure, which also helps give me clear time to structure my working day and deal with the unpredictable British weather! There are also lots of free community run groups. You could plan a play date to go on a treasure or pebble hunt, where people decorate and hide stones (Waterside Rocks is our local group). You could then add on a picnic or a visit to the local park or splash park with friends, if the sun is shining.

  • Managing screen time: With the increase in available free time, managing screen time becomes another challenge. Scheduling specific times for screen use, such as a late afternoon ‘chill out’ movie time, setting clear boundaries and auto screen time limits can help reduce arguments. Make sure you also set aside plenty of breaks and opportunities for other activities as mentioned above.

  • Look at social channels such as Pinterest for low-cost craft ideas or visit local libraries and Facebook groups for reading challenges and events to keep the family busy.

  • Check out some of Hampshire’s seasonal walks

  • Find out about groups for young people and families

  • Go on a Forest adventure


Budgeting for summer fun

Summer activities, holidays and short breaks can quickly become expensive, putting a strain on the family budget as well as your mental health.

Beach clifftop landscape scene: free activities for kids

Top tips

  • Set a budget: I would recommend spending time setting a budget to understand how much you can spend on activities and stick to it – it’s easy to get drawn into a friend’s exciting plans and all the potential events advertised. I usually work out the budget for childcare at various summer camps based on our typical after-school activity and usual clubs spend first. I then factor in any pre-booked holiday costs. This then identifies the remaining money we have available for days out.

  • Plan free activities for kids: Look for free or low-cost options like picnics, walks, or visiting local parks and beaches. And, for longer trips, visiting family will help with keeping costs low and you’ll also benefit from support with entertaining the kids. I used some annual leave this year to catch up with family that live further away. It was good for us all to have a change of scenery where we could spend time connecting over board games and playing in the garden. We also visited the local park, the (free!) museum (so the kids learnt a bit about the history of the area too!), and the shops to pick out some treats.

  • Find discounts and the best time to buy: Search for deals on local attractions or events. There are a lot of promo codes available on the internet and it’s usually cheaper to go as a family, or with friends, to make the most of group ticket discounts. Booking online in advance is often the most cost-effective way of buying tickets. We utilise annual tickets to help with days out (I ask for these for Christmas and birthday gifts), and I took advantage of a last minute Butlin’s deal to kick-off the summer holidays, but I also booked ahead for our main break, so that we’d secured a low cost deal and were able to spread the cost across the year.

  • If you’re worried about money over the summer, our money and mental health toolkit can help with planning your finances.


Summer self-care: taking time for yourself

Amid the mayhem of the summer holidays, finding time for yourself is essential for maintaining your mental health and positive wellbeing. 

This could be taking a walk in nature, connecting with friends, or writing a journal or jotting down some reminders of what your grateful for.

As with everything, this time will pass, but I find it’s always good to appreciate the small things and keep things in perspective.

Self care - someone reading a book

Top tips

  • Schedule ‘me time’: Set aside regular time for activities you enjoy, whether it’s 10 minutes reading in the garden with a coffee, or pursuing a passion, it all helps to give you time to reset and breathe. I recently went for a swim with a friend which was a different and invigorating way to catch up and we both felt much more energised after. I also took a day at the weekend to join a Pilates intensive with other mums. This helped with connection, exercise and relaxation – something I find difficult to fit into my weekly summer schedule at home, but really helps to maintain positive wellbeing.


  • Babysitting swaps: a practical way to make sure you get some personal time is to arrange a mutually convenient babysitting swap with friends or family so you can each enjoy time on your own, with friends or your partner. I find putting a date in the diary will make you commit, and it will also help to have something to look forward to.


  • Actively practice self-care: Engage in self-care routines. This could be meditation or breathing activities, enjoying a relaxing bath with special oils or a face mask, getting an early night, or taking time out to exercise. All will help with keeping perspective and resetting after a busy week of juggling. I have also found it useful to join a working parent Facebook group which helps me stay accountable for this.


  • Check out our guide to creating your own self-care box and watch our Content and Marketing Officer Issy building a self-care box.


  • Everything feels better after a good night’s sleep – read our sleep toolkit for more information about how to help manage your sleep.


Final thoughts

Summer holidays come with their unique set of challenges, but with a bit of planning and creativity, they can be a wonderful time for families. 

From balancing work and childcare, to keeping kids entertained and managing budgets, there are many ways to make the summer enjoyable for everyone. 

My advice is to embrace the chaos, find joy in the little moments, and know that you’re not alone in this journey.

We’d love to hear your experiences and tips, contact us at: communications@solentmind.org.uk to share your story.

For more ideas on how to help with positive mental health and wellbeing visit our ‘Thrive Inside’ webpage.

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